Refusing to bake a cake for a gay wedding.

[Symmetry]

Not exactly, no. It's refusing to make a cake about a political issue. If they refused to make any cake for gay people, then that's clear cut discrimination.

So what? Stop implying a pejorative. We all discriminate constantly. It's the intelligent thing to do. If anything it is lack of discrimination that should be more often censured. Your manipulative and self-serving idiocy must be constantly corrected, Sym.

Your dislike of me has once again buried your reason. I have no idea what point you're trying to make beyond being basically bitchy.

If my reading is correct, however, and you're conflating two definitions of the word "discriminate" as if they are the same, then that might well have been the most banal insult I've ever received. If so, congrats, I guess.

They are the same. We've already had this discussion. I discriminate against hot stoves and don't touch them.

Either you're being extremely shallow or you're being profoundly stupid. You're treating the word "discriminate" as if it has a single definition. One that favours your argument.

Congrats, DY, you've understood one meaning of the word. Sorry, but you and the hot stove aren't the be all and end all of the word.

[karel]

i would not even bake dirt for these f*ckers

[Symmetry]

i would not even bake dirt for these f*ckers

They are gonna be so disappointed. They had such high hopes for you.

[riskllama]

wouldn't it be neat to wake up one morning and be karel for 24 hrs?

[notyou2]

How would you live with yourself? Going through life full of hate. It must be exhausting.

[riskllama]

i said for 24 hrs. only. i should think that would be plenty, no?

[betiko]

I wonder if karel bakes good cakes. If he is a great baker, that is some really sad news for the lgbt community.

[jonesthecurl]

Someone left his cake out in the rain...

[DoomYoshi]

Not exactly, no. It's refusing to make a cake about a political issue. If they refused to make any cake for gay people, then that's clear cut discrimination.

So what? Stop implying a pejorative. We all discriminate constantly. It's the intelligent thing to do. If anything it is lack of discrimination that should be more often censured. Your manipulative and self-serving idiocy must be constantly corrected, Sym.

Your dislike of me has once again buried your reason. I have no idea what point you're trying to make beyond being basically bitchy.

If my reading is correct, however, and you're conflating two definitions of the word "discriminate" as if they are the same, then that might well have been the most banal insult I've ever received. If so, congrats, I guess.

They are the same. We've already had this discussion. I discriminate against hot stoves and don't touch them.

Either you're being extremely shallow or you're being profoundly stupid. You're treating the word "discriminate" as if it has a single definition. One that favours your argument.

Congrats, DY, you've understood one meaning of the word. Sorry, but you and the hot stove aren't the be all and end all of the word.

There is only one word. You decide you don't like something because it causes harm. Gay people happen to be nauseating to 50% of Americans. I would say that if you need to start popping Gravol to be around them, it's probably a fair case of discrimination.

What is the other definition of which you pretend?

[Symmetry]

Oh dear- you're angry and confused. I don't know how to hold your hand on this, but sometimes words have multiple meanings. I don't want you to freak out and think that dictionaries are so gay that they nauseate you again, so maybe take an anti-emetic before you look up a word like "set" (arguably the word with the most different meanings), or gods forbid "sanguine" (one with two completely opposite meanings).

[Thorthoth]

No sym, you and DY are discussing the same single definition of discrimination. You just want to employ that definition for your own usage while prohibiting others from doing likewise.

Stop trying to predatorily shove your big gay cake down everybody's throats.

[Symmetry]

No sym, you and DY are discussing the same single definition of discrimination. You just want to employ that definition for your own usage while prohibiting others from doing likewise.

Stop trying to predatorily shove your big gay cake down everybody's throats.

There's a big gay cake? You can choke on it if you want, but it is the product of your own imagination.

[2dimes]

A cake can't be gay. A wedding cake can't be gay. Cakes are cakes. That is part of why, I believe all bakers should have to sell cake to anyone with money.

Personally, if a customer I disagree with, wants some cake. I would make an effort to provide it.

At no point in the transaction should there be personal questions.

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No need to discuss details about either person, including but not limited to, "I like cats. I can or can't balance a stick on my nose. I like turtles. I'm marrying another guy. I'm a moron that posts on the Internet. One time at band camp. I used to be afraid of Mexican food....." None of that is important.

They want a cake not your support. You are baking, not giving them permission to live their lives differently than you.

[betiko]

Sometimes, people can ask to include a message on the cake... and bakers have already disproved some messages containing insults or other inapropriate things.

Crap someone told me a joke in spanish yesterday but i can't really translate it...

So a gay guy goes to the baker to pick up the cake he ordered for his birthday. He gets his cake (being a spanish gay guy he just ordered a normal cake, not an american gay cake).
He's all gay and excited, walking down the street quite gayishly with his massive cake.
He then encounters a few gay aquaintances in the street.
"Ohhh my!!! Look at Pedro and his massive cake! Ohh Pedro aren't you going to share?"
"Ooookayy guys! You guys are all invited... come to my place and let's eat it up!"
"Ooooh! Exciting! Thank you Pedro! Can we eat the cake after that?"

[2dimes]

Yeah it doesn't translate but I see what it means. I like the joke. A short English equivalent would be.

First person, "I have cake. Want to come over for a piece?"
Other person, "Sure. May I have some cake too."

The premis being the person offered a piece of cake to eat but left out details. The other person takes advantage of that and replies as if they will be able to get "a piece" insinuating that to be short for, "a piece of tail." A popular phrase meaning to have sex.

If you are like me you might prefer to add details to warm up your audience for the punch line.

[mrswdk]

It’s funny because the guys are gay so they’re all going to have sex with each other.

[Dukasaur]

Did you figure that out on your own?

[betiko]

Yeah it doesn't translate but I see what it means. I like the joke. A short English equivalent would be.

First person, "I have cake. Want to come over for a piece?"
Other person, "Sure. May I have some cake too."

The premis being the person offered a piece of cake to eat but left out details. The other person takes advantage of that and replies as if they will be able to get "a piece" insinuating that to be short for, "a piece of tail." A popular phrase meaning to have sex.

If you are like me you might prefer to add details to warm up your audience for the punch line.

I was more concerned to find an equivalent in english so that his friends could go like.. "oh my god, Pedro... Phrasing!!!!"
This was told by a friend from Cadiz... they are known for telling good jokes here in spain... their strategy is to tell jokes one after the other with very small breaks, so you're still laughing at the previous one, then you laugh at the next one more than you should because your laughometer keeps going up, till you laugh for very silly ones.
Anyways, that one reminded me of this thread, and I thought you all should have a piece of it.

[betiko]

It’s funny because the guys are gay so they’re all going to have sex with each other.

Briliant!

[2dimes]

Ok I'll tidy it up. As you know I can't spell so be cautious.

So a gay guy goes to the baker to pick up the cake he ordered for his birthday. He gets his cake (being a spanish gay guy he just ordered a normal cake, not an american gay cake).
He's all gay and excited, walking down the street quite gayly with his massive cake.
He then encounters a few gay aquaintances in the street.
One says, "Ohhh my!!! Look at Pedro and his massive cake! Ohh Pedro aren't you going to share?"
Pedro pauses then says, "Ooookayy guys! You guys are all invited... come to my place for a piece!"
Another guy says, "Ooooh! How exciting! Thank you Pedro! Can we eat the cake after that?"

So as you can see it was really close.

[Symmetry]

Meh- I don't like the idea that a baker should refuse to bake a cake for a wedding because the couple are gay. I support their right to do so. If they refused to make cakes for gay people at all, then that's where I see a problem.

I do find it kinda weird that they're saying that it's because they're Christian. That complicates things- it's not a key tenet of Christianity to oppose marriage, and various forms of Christianity have their own dogma about it (Priests and ministers marrying? Celibacy? Divorce? Re-marrying? Marriage with non-believers?) too, even without the gay marriage thing playing a part.

[Thorthoth]

News Update:
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[ConfederateSS]

------I think God would say,"Let them eat cake!",Hell,he would make free cakes appear out of thin air,for all...So,I don't know why that is an issue...Once again The US Government gets to tell people what to do...I don't know if you own a public business if you can refuse to bake a wedding cake...
------When I drove for Domino's Pizza in the 90's...Southwest Detroit was worse than a war zone at times...So,if you came to a house that did not look safe,you felt uncomfortable...You could take the pizza back to the shop...Call the people to come pick it up...Or try and pass that pizza off on another order...
------So,if the Government is going to force the baker to sell them a cake...Does the baker have to deliver it?...If the baker feels uncomfortable going to their wedding...Can he make them pick up the cake?...
------For those who think the baker could put something in the cake...Never going to happen...If,the baker was going to take that road...It would have had to be done,by accepting their order,never bringing this issue to the surface...NOW EVERYONE WILL BE WATCHING...I doubt now the wedding couple would want a cake from this place...So they must be just trying to shut down his business...I'm with God on this one...Let them eat cake,we are all EARTHLINGS ... ConfederateSS.out!(The Blue and Silver Rebellion)... ...I think this is really a stunt though, TO HAVE THE CAKE BOSS "Buddy" pick up the check for their wedding cake...